Brief Talk After Dark – Brief Tale featuring Pup Hermes

Guest: Pup Hermes

In this episode of Brief Talk, UNB Tim sits down with Pup Hermes—a proud thonger, kinky pup, and longtime member of the fetish community—to talk about gear, confidence, sexual expression, and building real community beyond the hookup.

From discovering thongs in high school in a conservative environment to becoming deeply immersed in San Francisco’s kink scene and now creating fetish-forward community spaces in Chicago, Pup Hermes shares an open, honest, and unapologetic conversation about owning what you love and finding your people.

This episode goes beyond underwear and sex—it’s about confidence, creativity, chosen family, and giving people permission to show up as their full selves.

What We Talk About in This Episode

  • Discovering thongs and fetish gear while growing up in a conservative area
  • Wearing thongs in high school—and owning it
  • How underwear became a source of confidence and self-expression
  • Working at Mr. S Leather and life inside San Francisco’s kink scene
  • Winning Mr. San Francisco Rubber 2017
  • Building a thong collection (over 500 pairs and counting)
  • Favorite thong brands, fabrics, and pouch styles
  • The difference between wearing a thong and being a true thonger
  • Thong sex, gear-on play, and fetish creativity
  • Voyeurism, confidence, and knowing your audience
  • Bodysuits, spandex, shiny fabrics, and gym-friendly fetishwear
  • Creating both sexual and non-sexual fetish community events
  • Why friendship and chosen family matter just as much as play

Follow Pup Hermes

If you love thongs, spandex, bold confidence, and unapologetic fetish energy, make sure to follow Pup Hermes:

  • BlueSky: https://bsky.app/profile/puphermes.bsky.social
  • Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/puphermes/

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Brief Talk After Dark – Deep in the Jock: Desire, Masculinity & the Erotic Side of Athletic Support

Deep in the Jock: Desire, Masculinity & the Erotic Side of Athletic Support

This After Dark episode of the Brief Talk Podcast dives deep into one of the most iconic, erotic, and misunderstood pieces of men’s underwear: the jockstrap.

UNB Tim is joined by returning guests Jay, Eric (The Jocker Room), and Chris (Crimson Ginger) for an unfiltered, honest, and playful conversation about jocks—where they started, why they matter, and how they’ve evolved from locker-room necessity to full-blown fetish icon.

From first jock memories and stolen locker-room fantasies to gym culture, masculinity, bulges, straps, and the politics of showing skin, this episode blends nostalgia, sexuality, and community in true After Dark fashion.

What We Cover in This Episode

• First experiences wearing a jockstrap (sports, curiosity, and fantasy)

• Seeing another guy in a jock for the first time—and why it hits different

• What makes a jock sexy: straps, pouch, waistband, or ass?

• Jocks as a signal: masculinity, readiness, and sexual energy

• Wearing jocks in public spaces: gyms, locker rooms, bars, underwear parties

• The fetishization of jocks in gay culture and porn history

• Why straight men stopped wearing jocks—and why gay men didn’t

• Classic athletic jocks vs. modern fashion and fetish designs

• Brand talk: Bike, Nike, Under Armour, Calvin Klein, and the power of the waistband

• Locker-room lore: stolen jocks, found underwear, and fantasy culture

• Jocks as a green flag for openness, confidence, and self-expression

• Breaking shame, toxic masculinity, and the rules around men’s underwear

Why This Episode Hits

This isn’t just about underwear—it’s about identity, confidence, desire, and freedom. The jockstrap becomes a lens for talking about masculinity, body image, fetish shame, and how men connect with each other through something as simple (and loaded) as what they wear underneath.

Spicy, thoughtful, funny, and very After Dark—this is one of those episodes that feels like a late-night locker-room conversation you weren’t supposed to overhear.

Patreon Bonus

Patreon members get access to an exclusive “Jock Would You Rather?” segment with the guests that goes even deeper into fantasy, kink, and personal preferences.

Follow Our Guests

• Jay – Instagram: @mr_j_jason

• Eric (The Jocker Room) – Instagram & BlueSky: @thejockerroom

• Chris (Crimson Ginger)

• Instagram: @crimson.ginger

• BlueSky: crimson.ginger

• Tumblr: Crimson Ginger’s World

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Brief Talk After Dark – Unmasking the Pup Life with Pup Urban

In this episode of the Brief Talk After Dark podcast, host UNB Tim welcomes back Urban to discuss the fascinating world of pup play. They explore what it means to be a pup, the mindset behind it, and the appeal of anonymity in the kink community. Urban shares his personal journey into pup play, the significance of pup names, and the importance of having alter egos in kink. The conversation also touches on common questions about pup play, the mainstreaming of pup culture, and the gear associated with it. Finally, they discuss the vibrant pup community in Atlanta and the importance of connecting with others in the kink scene.

Takeaways

Pup play allows individuals to escape their everyday stress.

The pup mindset is about turning off the human brain.

Gear in pup play is more about mindset than material possessions.

Anonymity in pup play provides a safe space for exploration.

Pup names often reflect personal significance or interests.

Alter egos help individuals separate their kink identities from their everyday lives.

The pup community is growing and becoming more inclusive.

Pup play is relatable and accessible for many people.

Starting small with gear is advisable for newcomers to pup play.

Community events foster connection and support within the kink scene.

Titles

Exploring the World of Pup Play

The Mindset Behind Being a Pup

Sound bites

“Gear is a mindset, not a purchase.”

“It’s a very easy intro head space.”

“Start small and go from there.”

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Brief Talk After Dark – Brief Tale featuring LycraJock

In this episode of the Brief Talk podcast, host Unb Tim welcomes Simon, a passionate spandex enthusiast. They discuss Simon’s journey into the world of spandex, exploring how his love for cycling and superhero costumes evolved into a fetish. The conversation delves into the challenges of finding spandex gear, the community surrounding it, and the experiences at events like Darklands. Simon shares his favorite pieces of spandex, his daily wear habits, and the importance of self-expression within the fetish community. The episode concludes with Simon’s social media presence and a call to embrace one’s passions.

Takeaways

Simon discovered his love for spandex at age 16.

His interest in spandex grew from cycling and superhero costumes.

The spandex community is smaller but passionate.

Spandex can be mixed with other fetish wear.

Wearing spandex in the gym can be controversial.

Simon enjoys wearing spandex daily, especially for exercise.

Events like Darklands provide a welcoming space for spandex lovers.

Social media helps connect spandex enthusiasts.

Self-expression is key in the fetish community.

Simon encourages others to embrace their passions.

Titles

Exploring the World of Spandex

Simon’s Journey into Spandex Fetishism

Sound bites

“It’s freeing that you get to be yourself.”

“I need more spandex in my collection.”

“Thank you for coming on the show.”

Chapters

00:00 Introduction to Spandex and Simon’s Journey

02:42 The Evolution of Spandex Fetishism

05:12 Spandex in Everyday Life and Fitness

07:44 Community and Events: Embracing Spandex Culture

10:32 Personal Preferences and Fashion Choices

13:10 Social Media and Sharing the Spandex Love

15:28 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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Brief Talk After Dark – Cup Check

In this engaging episode of Brief Talk After Dark, we delve into the intriguing world of athletic cups. Our hosts, along with guests Alex and Andrew, share their personal journeys and insights into the evolution of this essential sports gear. From childhood memories to modern-day collections, discover the cultural and personal significance of athletic cups.

Key Topics:

The personal stories of how each guest got into athletic cups The evolution of athletic cups from traditional designs to modern innovations The cultural and community aspects of sports gear enthusiasts The intersection of sports, masculinity, and personal identity

Highlights:

Andrew’s early introduction to cups through sports and his extensive collection Alex’s transition from theater to sports and his favorite cup designs The discussion on the rarity and value of certain cup models The humorous and nostalgic locker room stories shared by the hosts

Quotes:

“I remember putting it on for the first time and there was something really cool about it.” – Andrew “There’s something that’s just hyper masculine about cups and jocks.” – Alex “It’s amazing when you think of the different cups, because when we all started, they were pretty generic.” – Host

Hashtags: #AthleticCups #SportsGear #Podcast #LockerRoomTalk

Listen in to explore the fascinating stories and insights about athletic cups, and share your own experiences with us!

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Brief Talk After Dark – Spandex the fetish side

In this engaging conversation, the hosts explore the multifaceted world of spandex, particularly its fetish aspect. They discuss the normalization of wearing spandex in public, the allure of the fabric, and the duality of its use in sports and fetish contexts. The conversation also touches on the challenges of building a supportive community for spandex enthusiasts and the importance of self-acceptance and confidence in expressing one’s identity through spandex. The hosts share personal experiences and insights, emphasizing the need for open discussions and events to foster connections within the spandex community.

Takeaways

  • The spandex community is diverse and welcoming.
  • Normalizing spandex in public can boost confidence.
  • Spandex has a unique allure that many discover early in life.
  • There is a distinction between wearing spandex for sport and for fetish.
  • Building a community around spandex can be challenging but rewarding.
  • Confidence is key to wearing spandex in public.
  • Social media plays a significant role in connecting spandex enthusiasts.
  • Events specifically for spandex lovers are needed.
  • Self-acceptance is crucial for enjoying spandex.
  • The conversation around spandex should be open and inclusive.

Titles

  • Exploring the Spandex Fetish Community
  • Normalizing Spandex: A Journey of Confidence

Sound Bites

  • “It’s been that long? Oh my god.”
  • “I think we need our own event.”
  • “Be yourself for who you are.”

Links:

  • AndyELycra
    • https://www.instagram.com/andyelycra/
  • Fourway333
    • https://www.instagram.com/fourway333/
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Brief Talk After Dark – Spandex Tale with Ryan

In this episode of the Brief Talk After Dark Podcast, host Unb Tim welcomes Ryan, a passionate spandex enthusiast, to discuss their shared love for spandex gear. They explore Ryan’s journey into the spandex community, his first experiences with spandex gear, and the evolution of spandex fashion over the years. The conversation delves into current trends, the intersection of kink and spandex, and the importance of community connection. They also share their wish lists for future gear and express a desire for more visibility and acceptance of spandex culture within the broader kink community.

Takeaways

  • Ryan identifies as a spandex enthusiast and is known in the community as the dapperdoberman.
  • The conversation highlights the importance of community and connection among spandex lovers.
  • Ryan’s journey into spandex began with superheroes and evolved into a passion for various types of gear.
  • The excitement of buying and wearing spandex gear is a shared experience among enthusiasts.
  • There is a growing trend of mixing spandex with other fetish gear, creating unique styles.
  • The podcast emphasizes the need for more visibility of spandex culture in kink events.
  • Ryan shares his experiences of collecting Olympic gear and the thrill of acquiring unique pieces.
  • The conversation touches on the nostalgia for 80s and 90s spandex styles and the desire for their return.
  • Both hosts express a wish for more creative and fun designs in the spandex community.
  • The episode concludes with a call to action for listeners to embrace their love for spandex and connect with others in the community.

Titles

  • Unveiling the Spandex Culture
  • The Journey of a Spandex Enthusiast

Sound Bites

  • “There’s never enough gear.”
  • “I want to design tacky spandex.”
  • “Spandex is its own entity.”

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Brief Talk After Dark – Spandex Brief Tale – Proud Thonger

In this episode, Al shares his passion for spandex and how it has been a significant part of his life journey. He discusses his transition from being a chubby guy to embracing fitness and nutrition, and how spandex became a symbol of his self-expression and confidence. Al also touches on the importance of mindfulness and balance in life, especially in the face of personal challenges. His story is one of growth, acceptance, and the joy of wearing what makes him feel good. In this engaging conversation, Al and Unb Tim explore the importance of prioritizing joy in life, particularly in the context of fitness and personal expression through fashion. Al shares insights on the functionality of fitness gear, the connections formed within the spandex community, and the acceptance of diverse preferences in both spandex and underwear cultures. The discussion emphasizes the significance of self-expression, community support, and the joy of exploring personal style.

Takeaways

  • Al has been a spandex enthusiast for over half his life.
  • He encourages men to embrace wearing thongs and spandex for comfort and confidence.
  • Fitness and nutrition played a crucial role in Al’s transformation.
  • Spandex allows Al to feel like a superhero and enhances his self-image.
  • Mindfulness and balance are essential in navigating life’s challenges.
  • Al’s journey includes coping with personal loss and learning from therapy.
  • He emphasizes the importance of self-compassion in maintaining a healthy lifestyle.
  • Al’s love for spandex is rooted in both functionality and aesthetics.
  • He believes that wearing spandex can enhance one’s physical attributes.
  • Al’s story inspires others to embrace their unique journeys. Prioritizing joy is essential in navigating life’s challenges.
  • Understanding personal priorities can accelerate achieving fitness goals.
  • Fitness gear should balance functionality and personal style.
  • Community connections enhance the experience of wearing spandex.
  • Exploring different styles can lead to self-discovery and acceptance.
  • Subcultures within the spandex community offer diverse expressions.
  • It’s important to respect individual preferences in fashion choices.
  • Functionality in fitness gear can prevent discomfort during workouts.
  • Engaging with others in the community fosters a sense of belonging.
  • Self-expression through fashion can be liberating and joyful.

Titles

  • Finding Joy in Fitness and Fashion
  • The Intersection of Functionality and Style
  • Building Community Through Spandex
  • Exploring Personal Style in Fitness Gear

Sound Bites

  • “I fell in love with fitness.”
  • “It enhances your assets.”
  • “It’s all about a balance.”
  • “It’s all about mindfulness.”
  • “Is it a priority?”
  • “Functionality before fetish.”
  • “You can explore other gear.”
  • “There’s a bit of everything.”

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Brief Talk After Dark – Jock Embarrassed New Wear Tightys

In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, host Unb Tim welcomes back Jock from Wear Tidies to discuss the launch of his new underwear collection. They delve into the design inspirations, customer feedback, and the fabric composition of the new briefs. Jock shares insights about the upcoming multi-pack option and the importance of sizing inclusivity. The conversation also touches on future plans for the brand, including new merchandise and community engagement. Listeners are encouraged to check out the new collection and join the conversation about underwear.

Takeaways

  • Jock’s brand, Wear Tidies, is launching a new collection of briefs.
  • The new collection features a classic fly design based on customer feedback.
  • The fabric composition includes cotton, spandex, and bamboo for comfort.
  • A multi-pack option will be available for the first time.
  • Sizing will range from small to triple XL for inclusivity.
  • Future plans include expanding the product line to include bikini briefs.
  • Community engagement is key to the brand’s development.
  • Jock is excited about the new t-shirt design featuring the brand logo.
  • The importance of comfort and fit in underwear is emphasized.
  • Listeners are encouraged to support the brand and provide feedback.

Titles

  • Unveiling the New Wear Tidies Collection
  • The Evolution of Men’s Underwear

Sound Bites

  • “I have my own underwear brand.”
  • “This collection has a standard classic fly.”
  • “I want to have a bikini brief.”
  • “I have to go back to the drawing board on it.”
  • “You can buy them on weartidies.com.”

Links:

  • Store –
    • https://weartighties.com
  • Social
    • Instagram – hhttps://www.instagram.com/jockembarrassed/
    • Twitter – https://x.com/JockEmbarrassed
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Brief Talk After Dark – Male Corsets with Kristina and John

In this episode of the Brief Talk Podcast, host Unb Tim welcomes back John and Christina from BodyAware and X-Dress to discuss the growing trend of corsets in men’s lingerie. They explore the history and functionality of corsets, how to style them confidently, the importance of proper sizing, and the challenges of designing corsets for men. The conversation highlights the evolving perceptions of men’s lingerie and the creative possibilities in fashion. In this engaging conversation, the hosts discuss the evolving landscape of men’s fashion, particularly focusing on the growing acceptance and popularity of corsets among men. They explore how non-traditional clothing is becoming more mainstream and the importance of self-expression in fashion. The discussion also delves into practical tips for choosing and wearing corsets, emphasizing the need for comfort and adjustability. The episode concludes with recommendations for where to find quality corsets and other stylish items, encouraging listeners to embrace their unique fashion choices.

Takeaways

  • Corsets are becoming increasingly popular in men’s lingerie.
  • Historically, corsets were worn by men for posture and structure.
  • Underbust corsets are a great entry point for men.
  • Styling corsets can enhance confidence and personal expression.
  • Choosing the right size involves measuring the waist and adjusting accordingly.
  • Lacing a corset can be a two-person job for the best fit.
  • Men’s corsets can be made from a variety of fabrics, not just traditional feminine ones.
  • Designing corsets involves complex considerations of fit and comfort.
  • Confidence is key when wearing a corset in public.
  • The evolution of men’s corsets reflects changing fashion norms. Guys are looking for something different in fashion.
  • Corsets are not just for women; they can be for men too.
  • The popularity of corsets is linked to their marketing towards men.
  • Seeing men in corsets opens up new possibilities for style.
  • Experimentation in fashion allows for unique expressions of self.
  • More companies are taking risks in men’s fashion.
  • Adjustability is key when choosing a corset.
  • Start with a front zip corset for ease of use.
  • It’s important to find a style that resonates with you.
  • Fashion is a team effort; don’t hesitate to ask for help.

Titles

  • Breaking Fashion Norms: Corsets for Men
  • The Rise of Non-Traditional Men’s Fashion
  • Corsets: A New Frontier in Men’s Style

Sound Bites

  • “What exactly is a corset?”
  • “It does improve your posture.”
  • “You want to make a statement.”
  • “This isn’t just for women.”
  • “I can talk underwear all day.”
  • “Go check out the Glow line.”
  • “You are amazing.”

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